Some lessons from JerryWeinberg's BecomingaTechnicalLeader
	* No matter how strange it may look, most people are actually trying to be helpful.
	* Attempts to help are often misinterpreted as attempts to interfere.
	* Wanting to help people may be a noble motive, but that doesn't make it any easier.

See also AssumeGoodFaith, HanlonsRazor, AssumeIgnoranceNotMalice