Traditionally, ''Do unto others as you would have them do unto you'' Cynically, ''He who has the gold makes the rules'' Aggressively, ''Do unto others before they do unto you'' (Tarnished Silver Rule?) Also formulated as the CategoricalImperative : ''Act as if the maxim of thy action were to become by thy will a universal law of nature.'' See: * StressFreeProgramming (ExtremeProgramming golden rules) * MoreThanYourPart * UniversalGoldenRule * BiblicalGoldenRule * VeilOfIgnorance * GoldenRuleOfAlgebra ---- Confucious had a version of the Golden Rule: ''Do unto your inferiors as you would have your superiors do unto you.'' ''Adept Kung asked: "Is there any one word that could guide a person throughout life?"'' ''The Master replied: "How about 'shu': never impose on others what you would not choose for yourself?"'' ''Analects XV.24, tr. David Hinton'' ---- I thought the original Golden Rule, which came out of India centuries before Christ, was "Don't do to others what you wouldn't want done to yourself". Similar, yet subtly different. The first describes a set of things you should do, the second describes a set of things you shouldn't do. ''The Jewish version is stated in the negative: "Do '''not''' do unto others as you would '''not''' have them do unto you." A much more appropriate standard, I think for PrinciplesForGoodGuys than the positive.'' The difference between the negative rule compared to the positive rule is one action and caring. The negative rule requires one not to do something. It is passive, almost to the point of indifference for the other person. The positive rule requires one to Do something. It is active. One has to care for the other person, at least as a fellow human being. ''The other difference is that the negative rule is more permissive, in that you are still allowed to do things to others that you would feel indifferent about having done to you. ...unless you read the positive version strictly, which requires some behaviors but allows all behaviors. Perhaps it would be better phrased "'''Only''' do unto others as you would have them do unto you."'' ---- I seem to remember (from ReligiousEducation classes in school) a hierarchy of rules named after metals which culminated in this one and were supposed to represent degrees of ethical or moral sophistication. The first was Lead, or something, and basically said "Do as I say or I'll kill you" [''I suspect you are thinking of the Iron Rule: "An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, a life for a life"'']. The "Don't do to others..." rule above was, I think, Silver (one below Gold), and was held to be less advanced because it was purely negative. Is this just a bizarre teaching tool, or is it something other people have encountered? ''I don't see one as being morally superior to the other, although I do see the negative rule as more practical and eminently realistic than the positive, therefore I believe it to be far more valuable. -- MarkAddleman'' Which is as may be... But the GoldenRule is intended (?) to ''subsume'' the silver rule (i.e. "not doing" is a special case of "doing", although recognising this is tantamount to recognising the converse... and if you do this, the silver rule transmutes ''itself'' into the GoldenRule). So it's not a case of either...or, it's a case of ''just'' (!) the silver rule, or the silver rule "plus". Whether that "plus" is a ''moral'' superiority depends on your system of ethics. ---- There's also a Platinum Rule: "Them what has, gets." ---- So what's the weapons grade uranium rule? "6 times out of 238, It'll melt your thyroid", or "in the end, it all turns to lead"? ''Probably similar to the plutonium rule - "He who has the plutonium gets diplomacy"'' ---- The golden rule assumes everybody has compatible personal desires. "Do unto others what they would have YOU do unto THEM", or at least "Don't do unto others what they would have you not do unto them" is another possibility. For example, I might want someone to prevent me from taking an action they believe would harm me, but that doesn't mean you would want me to do the same to you. ''Indeed. We have choices. Some choose to walk in the rain without an umbrella. That is what it means to live free -- RogerSmith'' In epigraphic form: ''Kitty heaven is mousie hell.'' ---- And then there is the dragon rule: "Whoever controls the dragon controls everything." ''Don't you mean, "He who controls the Spice controls the Empire"?'' ---- The GoldenRule also bears relation to the evolutionary principle of ReciprocalAtruism which, in GameTheory, has shown that players that follow TitForTat are more succesful. ---- Some other rules about gold: * "Never order from the menu any item when others are paying the bill, than you would if you were instead paying for it" with the corresponding: ** ''You're exempt from this one if you won the dinner on a bet.'' * "Don't go to dinner with others, unless you can pay for your own meal" * "If you can't pay cash for it, you shouldn't buy it" with the corresponding: * "Unless it's something you can eventually pay for that will last at least twice as long as it takes you to pay for it, like a car, or a home" ---- Another proof that all generalizations are bad (pun intended) - all good civilizations should do unto evil criminals what they wouldn't do unto themselves. ---- CategoryQuote