Not really listening at all, is it? You've got your answer ready to go, your foot on the accelerator, your hand on the wheel. The other guy may be sitting beside you revving his engine ... or he may be crossing the road in front of you ... or he may be trying to catch up ... but LifeIsShort, baby, and you're revved up and ready to go, go, go! A sure way to lose friends and fail to influence people. Instead, ListenWithQuestionRunning.