This is a variation on BeYourself. Just relax, stop DesperatelySearching - desperation is a real TurnOff...

''Oh, I thought it meant to keep your eyes above neck level.''

That too.

Also, while surprisingly sincere and straight forward in cinema, overly done eye contact is both tiring and annoying. Sometimes your date would like to scratch their nose. Sometimes you need to look at your food.
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See DatingPatterns